No matter who asks for the divorce, the process can devastate both parties involved. Loss of self-esteem, fear of living alone, and even financial instability can affect both people in a broken marital relationship. Although the relationship between the couple will never be what it once was, if there are children involved, the couple needs to work towards being able to interact civilly. Children will benefit from divorced parents who continue to communicate effectively vs. those who have hostile interactions. If you are working through a divorce with children, you
Give a Daily Valentine
by Lori Sciame January 12th, 2024 | RelationshipsNext gift-giving holiday? Valentine's Day! Even though most holiday lights decorating the outside of homes haven't been taken down, stores already have shelves full of Valentine's merchandise - stuffed teddy bears with big red hearts, heart shaped boxes filled with delectable chocolates, and even racy undergarments. Retailers jump on any chance to capitalize on holidays that center around gift giving. They are in business to make money; however, in our own important relationships we need to be less focused on buying love. This means we should not focus
Three Tips on Attraction
by Lori Sciame December 29th, 2023 | Relationships
Establishing rapport quickly when introduced to someone new can come in handy. This instant connection can work wonders when going to job interviews, when meeting co-workers for the first time, and when establishing relationships with clients. First impressions really do make a difference at the office; they also make a difference in matters of the heart. I pity the person who has a heart of gold, but who walks around with a frown instead of a smile. She may wonder why no man ventures near, yet the impression she unknowingly
People Pleasers, Listen Up
by Lori Sciame June 3rd, 2015 | RelationshipsAs I sorted through piles of my deceased mother's papers yesterday, I came across a quote that she had written down as she lay dying. "I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody." What a true statement, especially when it comes to healthy relationships. In order for any relationship to be successful, one must be true to himself or herself, and never become just a "yes" man (or woman).
After an Internet search, I found that this intriguing quote can be credited to actor/comedian Bill Cosby. Many