A few months ago, I wrote an article concerning my husband's retirement. I wondered how this major life change would affect our relationship. At the time, I felt unsure as to what aspects would change, but I instinctively knew that change was inevitable. In this update, I can report that we have survived the first two months; however, even with our easy going personalities, the process has been a bit bumpy.
The Good News
The fact that my husband would no longer stress over work after retirement was a given. He had been a police officer for 33 years, and being
Money and Relationships
by Lori Sciame August 5th, 2022 | Relationships
Most people understand that money will factor into a marriage. How a person handles his or her money, how generous he or she is with it, and even how much money a person earns each month, will all affect the quality of a relationship. Some statistics proclaim that 7 out of 10 married couples regularly disagree over money, and even if the number isn't that high, this issue still warrants discussion. Here are two cases where money ruined a love relationship.
It's Mine, All Mine!
Here's an interesting scenario: A newly retired man woos a divorced woman by treating her to
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It's Mine, All Mine!
Here's an interesting scenario: A newly retired man woos a divorced woman by treating her to
The Food and Relationship Connection
by Lori Sciame July 22nd, 2022 | Health Observance, Relationships
Most readers understand the overwhelmingly good feelings that correspond with finding a a special someone to love. Even if one has been in a relationship for quite a while, he or she will surely remember the first few months after meeting his or her soul mate. Remember how falling for someone changes everything? Although seemingly cliche, it's a fact that while falling love, colors seem brighter, life seems easier, and food tastes better (or one doesn't need food at all).
New Partner, New Foods
Before I met my husband, my life didn't revolve around Italian food; however, after marrying into an
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New Partner, New Foods
Before I met my husband, my life didn't revolve around Italian food; however, after marrying into an
Retirement Changes Relationships
by Lori Sciame July 8th, 2022 | Relationships
A man walks out his office door for the last time after 33 years of employment. Even though he's excited about not having to wake up each day at 5:30 am, and he professes he won't miss being on call 24/7, he still feels wistful that he has reached the end of his career as a police captain. "Everything changes," he thinks to himself as he places the last box of memorabilia in his trunk. Then he drives off into the scary world of retirement.
This scenario, or one similar to it, affects thousands of men and women in the
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This scenario, or one similar to it, affects thousands of men and women in the
Repairing a Relationship
by Lori Sciame April 15th, 2022 | Relationships
Some relationships must end. For instance, in cases of physical and mental abuse, contact should be cut off in order for healing to begin. In other cases, where the hurts don't run quite so deep, a relationship can many times be salvaged. And in some cases, it may again flourish. This applies to relationships between friends, siblings, parents and children, and even spouses. If a relationship should be fought for, then the following tips may help to begin the healing process.
Be the Bigger Person
A recent episode of a popular sitcom focused on the concept of "being the bigger person"
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Be the Bigger Person
A recent episode of a popular sitcom focused on the concept of "being the bigger person"