Establishing rapport quickly when introduced to someone new can come in handy. This instant connection can work wonders when going to job interviews, when meeting co-workers for the first time, and when establishing relationships with clients. First impressions really do make a difference at the office; they also make a difference in matters of the heart. I pity the person who has a heart of gold, but who walks around with a frown instead of a smile. She may wonder why no man ventures near, yet the impression she unknowingly
Holiday Survival Guide
by Lori Sciame November 10th, 2023 | Relationships
Soon the holiday season will be in full swing. There will be presents to buy, special treats to bake, and parties to attend. While many of the parties will be filled with good cheer and laughter, some will seem more like funeral wakes - complete with morose faces and mumbled greetings. If this sounds familiar, then take the time to read this post. Learn a few tips on how to survive a less than perfect family celebration.
Reject Emotional Blackmail
The first key to survival involves stopping emotional blackmail in its tracks. In essence, don't let yourself be bullied. For instance,
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Reject Emotional Blackmail
The first key to survival involves stopping emotional blackmail in its tracks. In essence, don't let yourself be bullied. For instance,
Food Does Not Equal Love
by Lori Sciame August 19th, 2023 | Health Observance, Relationships
Moms and dads, please take this advice to heart: food does not equal love. Â A candy bar given to a young child after a fall, or a banana split each day after school to celebrate another day of learning may seem harmless enough, but when food becomes a symbol of comfort and/or love to a child, then serious problems may occur.
Do you remember the stereotypical Italian mom who constantly begs her child to eat...anything and everything? Â Pasta, sauce, bread, meatballs, sausage...she fills the child's plate again and again. Â Although this example seems extreme, sadly, many parents still adhere to
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Do you remember the stereotypical Italian mom who constantly begs her child to eat...anything and everything? Â Pasta, sauce, bread, meatballs, sausage...she fills the child's plate again and again. Â Although this example seems extreme, sadly, many parents still adhere to
People Pleasers, Listen Up
by Lori Sciame June 3rd, 2015 | RelationshipsAs I sorted through piles of my deceased mother's papers yesterday, I came across a quote that she had written down as she lay dying. "I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody." What a true statement, especially when it comes to healthy relationships. In order for any relationship to be successful, one must be true to himself or herself, and never become just a "yes" man (or woman).
After an Internet search, I found that this intriguing quote can be credited to actor/comedian Bill Cosby. Many